HOW TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU IN 6 EASY STEPS
Making people like you is one of the top characteristics of charismatic people, that is why they easily build that trust and people want to be around them.
HOW TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU IN 6 EASY STEPS
1. Compliment what they’re working on
Complimenting people one of the best ways to make people feel better, it creates rapport and they would be interested in and make them like you. but there is an exception when using this step you should not compliment multiple times or they will see you as a trying hard guy because they see your compliment as flattery rather than genuine compliment.
Try to compliment people for what they are working on
i.g. say that i go to the gym to workout, at the gym one person said that I have a great smile. I would feel good and I would say thank you. but when the other guy says, good job you look fit and sexy, your workout is effective. I would feel great and like the person more because they notice something that I worked and struggled for.
2. Get people to talk about what they love
People like it when they talk about what they are passionate about or what they are interested in. we need to hit them at the core so they start sharing.
so how do you get people talk about what they love?
a. you can ask the person what they do? or what are the things you do aside from this and that?
you can also ask directly what are they passionate about or what are they interested in?
just ask questions that can trigger and then make them bring out what they love.
b. now if you successfully make them share their stories and what they are passionate about, ask them what did you like about it? what do you love about it?
“make people share their interest, passion, and love with you and they will associate that great feeling with you”
3. Body Language
do you know someone who crosses their arms when talking to you, it seems they judge you, or they are talking but they don’t look at you, or when talking to you their body doesn’t turn to you? How do you feel? you feel uncomfortable right.
Now I am going to give you quick body language tips to apply it in your life practice it, so you can make others feel comfortable as a result they have bigger chance to like you.
- Turn your feet to someone when talking to them, it shows that you really want to communicate with them and are focused and you don’t rush to go somewhere else.
- Open your body, show your chest. Don’t cross your arms or using your knees to hide your chest.
- Be steady and keep still.
- Eye contact but don’t stare; use your eyes for expressing. Don’t be the poker face guy.
- Open palm, open hands.
4. Initiative to give and give favor without them asking
Did you experience something like this? it’s your birthday and no one knows it because it is hidden from your Facebook profile and someone greeted you unexpectedly, how would you feel? or it’s just normal day, you just do what you do every day and someone gives you a surprise like a Flowers or present.
if I am hungry and I don’t have enough money to buy my food; my friend go to the counter and buy his food and bought another one for me. how would you feel? You feel Special at the same time mind blown.
“Be the person who gives people without them asking you to do it. exceed their expectation and surprise them.”
5. Call people by their name
When I was in my On-the-Job training, this advisor wanted to ask a favor to put the documents in a courier. but when he called me, he called me by other name and I feel so uncomfortable. I am thinking to myself “do you think I am a joke?”
“Call people by their name because if you do, you’re telling them that they are an individual they matter and has value.”
Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language. – Dale Carnegie
6. Be Honest
Lastly be Honest. I remember when I was in my elementary, not knowing self-improvement yet. There is one time my teacher announces something that I did not hear, so I ask my friends what the teacher has said? and they are being sarcastic and telling lies. I know it because I can read their faces – and when I ask this guy over there, he tells me exactly what the teacher announces, and I felt receptive to him. I felt like my question is respected and in turn, I want to give respect also. I like that guy.
“Being Honest in what you can do, what you can’t do, giving honest words to people than manipulating them into your own agenda. can build a strong relationship, care, and trust.”
making people like you is important in building a successful relationship, it makes you more charismatic in turn make you happier and you make an impact on others.
How to make people like you in 6 easy steps
- Compliment what they are working on or struggling off to reach their goal.
- Get people to talk about what they love.
- open body language so you make your conversation partner or groups comfortable.
- have the initiative to give and give them favors without them asking.
- Call people by their name because it is what sets them apart from other people.
- Be honest in every situation, you can tell sarcastic jokes but limit them don’t let people mistrust you.
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